Frequently asked questions

Got questions? We’ve got most of the answers! Be sure to check back regularly for updates. While some details will need to be shared in early 2025, we're able to answer many things now.

 FAQs

  • We were adamant about keeping and legalizing our November 20th anniversary—an anniversary we’ve held since 2007—but did not want to host a wedding in November.

    The purpose of our little legal ceremony was to mark and celebrate the legalization of our partnership. In Rhode Island, we are binding personalized vows to each other and celebrating our union.

  • We will share the registry in early 2025, if not sooner.

  • Yes, likely summer 2025. Stay tuned for details from Noelle (Maid of Honor) and Chase (Mate of Honor).

  • This will be shared in 2025.

  • We are not including kids in the rehearsal dinner, ceremony or reception.

    We recognize that some of you will choose to travel with your kids. Bridesmaid, Mom, and all-around amazing person, Anelise Shrout is organizing a shared babysitting service for those who need childcare while attending the event. Please reach out to her at shrouta@gmail.com if you are interested in shared childcare and costs.

  • This will be shared in 2025.

  • Yes, there is a room block at the The Fairfield Inn & Suites across the street. Head to Travel & Stay for details.

    Be sure to book your room by midnight on 9/15/25 to secure your room and rate. After this date, reservations and rates are subject to availability.

    There isn't a room block at the venue, but if you'd like to stay there, please visit Travel & Stay to learn how.

  • You are staying at Shepherd’s Run. The room you are staying in was shared in the Bridal Party Proposal package that you received.

    Altair will personally provide details for how to book your room when the booking link becomes available. If you have any questions, please reach out to Altair directly via Altair.Rasco@me.com.

  • If the weather is nice, the ceremony will be held outdoors in an open-air grass courtyard. If not, the ceremony will indoors.

    No matter what the weather, the cocktail hour and reception will be indoors.

  • Formal. Additional details to follow.

  • We do not recommend wearing stiletto heels because the ceremony may be on grass. Chunky heels or sandals are best (or change into stilettos after the ceremony).

  • Please refrain from taking photos during the ceremony, but take as many photos as you like afterwards! Please use #altairandpetedothething.

  • No.

  • No.

  • Parking is available onsite at Shepherd's Run.